Ricky and Vicky interview
I- Are we gunna see a geordie wedding this season?
V- no(.) we're not(.) I think(2)/
R-/you lost for words babe(.) is she feeling alright?(.) you feeling alright?
V- im not lost for words im just working out how to put it/
R- yeah OK!/
V- /shut up!
R- I cant believe this like
V- we dont have a wedding/
R-/its cus we're on camera this never happens/
V-/ no shut up!(.) we're having sorta like an engagement party(2) so its kinda like in the right direction for a wedding(.) but it's not a wedding(.) so we're moving towards a wedding[laughs](.) but were still very far away from a wedding[laughs]stop putting so much pressure on us[laughs]
I- i cant think of anything worse than planing a wedding[inaudible]
V-I can't literally(.) i'm so dreading the point where i have to do something like that(.) in real life we're just said we're having an engagement party in where all our friends and all our family
in yellow- socialect, low level of formality
in Red- gives a reason for all the awkward two second pauses, gives an understanding of how people change when on camera (observers paradox)
"sorta like" not complying with relevance (grices maxims)
rhetorical questions used to imply humour
Trugill 1983
Women's pronunciation is more formal and is closer to RP than males.
Cheshire 1982
Boys tend to use more non-grammatical forms, like ain't and cuz, than girls.
Lakoff (Robin) 1975
Women use: hedges + fillers; tag questions; apologetic requests, indirect requests, speak less, use fewer expletives, more intensifiers. She argued that these features of speech make women seem more inferior, weak and needy and prevents women from being taken seriously. Apologetic requests: Im sorry for having to ask this....
indirect requests: could someone....
O'Barr and Atkins 1980
Disputed Lakoff, said that it was males and females of low social status who used these linguistic features.
Zimmerman and West 1975
found 96% of interruptions were made by men, suggesting male dominance and superiority in conversation.
Tanner 1990
Differences not similarities.
Men: more concerned with status - interrupt more; gives more direct orders - don't mind conflict; more intensifiers in getting facts and solving problems.
Females: more interested in for bonds - tend to talk less and agree more; more polite indirect orders - to avoid conflict; aim to show understanding by compromising and offering support rather than solutions.
Beattie 1982
Questioned Zimmerman and West's theory that men's interruptions were a sign of dominance. He said it could be to show support and understanding
Cameron 2007
Argued all theories were biased because they concentrated on the differences between men and women's speech rather than the similarities.
Coates
'Women's talk' falls into four categories
1) Bitching
2) Chatting
3) House Talk
4) Scandal